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Meet Your Therapist, YiJia Shao RP

"Therapy isn’t about quick fixes—it’s about meaningful, lasting transformation. Let's build a life where you feel free to be unapologetically yourself."
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Hi, I'm Yi-Jia (pronounced as ee-jah) Shao, I use He/They pronouns (why pronouns are important). I am a proud queer identified trauma therapist and a trauma survivor.

I am located in Tkaronto (colonially known as Toronto).

Becoming your true self as a queer person can feel both liberating and overwhelming. Along the way, you may encounter rejection, whether from family, friends, or society. You might carry the weight of unmet expectations or fear failing yourself. Even when you know in your heart it’s the right path, emotions like fear, loneliness, and self-doubt can creep in, leaving you feeling isolated.

As a queer Asian therapist, I am here to walk this journey with you—helping you reclaim your freedom, joy, and sense of worth. My relational approach is designed to foster security and self-love within you. You deserve to be seen, to belong, and to live a life filled with joy and authenticity.

Growing up in mainland China and moving to the other half of the world has given me an opportunity to navigate the complexities of living “between worlds”. My living experience as a trauma survivor with undiagnosed neurodivergence allows me to understand how frustrating and lost it can be if one lives a life without knowing themselves. Yet I am grateful for my healing journey, as it led me to seek out a deeper purpose in life.

Like my fellow neurodivergent peeps, I have a variety of hobbies and interests. Outside the therapy room, I find healing in various forms of art, including music, dance, rock climbing, spending time with my bunnies and writing poems. I believe the power of creativity.

"Your sadness deserves to be witnessed."

Training, Certification, Education

Education:

  • Honours Bachelor of Science, University of Toronto; Major in Psychology, Philosophy and Buddhist Psychology & Mental Health
  • Master of Pastoral Studies degree in Psychotherapy and Spiritual Care, University of Toronto

Certification:

  • I am a Registered Psychotherapist with the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario.

Approaches & Values

My practice is rooted in the values of social justice, intersectionality, anti-oppression, anti-sexism, de-colonialization, anti-racism, anti-ablism, and a trauma-informed lens. My experience as an interfaith spiritual care practitioner prepared me with a culturally sensitive approach. I understand the intersection of one’s gender, cultural, and spiritual identity. I feel honored to accompany you on the journey of reconnecting with your authentic self. 

Values of my Practice:

Social Justice
Feeling sad or suicidal in an oppressive environment is not a personal failure.
Authenticity
Shame dies when the story is told in a safe place. You will be able to embrace your authentic self.
Compassion
 Founded on the belief that therapy works when we enter into caring and a supportive relationship together. Walking alongside you at each step of the journey.
Autonomy
Being aware of how the past is impacting you means you are freed from the trauma. Now you have the power to choose your own journey.

Services

  • Sliding scale is an important part of my practice. I offer limited sliding scale spots for those in financial difficulty. Please discuss details with me during initial consultation. While I can not guarantee that every inquiry will be met , I will do my best to provide alternative referrals.
  • Individual Therapy: $175per 1hour session
  • Couple/ Relationship Therapy: $200 per 1 hour session
  • Free Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) readiness Assessment
  • Workshops: on ARAO, Gender & Sexuality Diversity, Trauma, Self-care for Activists, Mental Health.
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To better support my clients and make more effective use of time, I have transitioned from a 15-minute free consultation to a 30-minute paid introductory session ($85/individual; $100/ couple). This allows us to have ample time to understand each other and determine if we are a good fit for long-term collaboration. I believe this approach respects the time and energy of both parties. If you require a sliding scale, feel free to leave a note when booking or email me directly. I’m happy to adjust the price for you on JaneApp.

Counselling from the convenience of your home

I serve clients across Ontario (ON) and most major provinces in Canada* using a safe, secure, and privacy legislation-compliant video platform.  I adapt my therapeutic approach to ensure interventions are safe and effective in a virtual environment. Many of my clients have hectic demands. I work with you to find a mutually agreeable time to process difficult emotions.”
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*For non-Canadian residents: I offer online relationship coaching and career coaching for non-Canadian residents

Clinic Hours:
Mondays - Wednesdays Virtual: 1:30 PM - 7:30 PM
Thursdays In person: 1:30-7:30 PM
I offer flexible afternoon and evening appointments

Cancellation Policy:
Please inform me 24 hours prior to the appointment if you need to cancel or reschedule the appointment. Late cancellation fee can be expected otherwise.

Endorsement from Colleagues

Yijia's compassionate approach is grounded in a strong commitment to anti-oppressive care. Yijia brings a wealth of lived experience to their work with clients. Yijia's talent lies empowering clients to reconnect with their inner self and live their truth
JD, MPS, RP , (he/him)
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Yijia provides a very safe space for clients to share anything that they might be going through. They take a thoughtful, multicultural and holistic approach to their practice. I would highly recommend them!
RP (Q), MPS, (She/her)
Yijia integrates their lived experience and professional expertise into their work, bringing a unique and holistic perspective. They're a compassionate and inclusive therapist, and create a space where clients feel heard and understood.
RP(Q), MPS, (She/her)
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Yijia is a truly empathetic, sensitive, and warm therapist who always brings a calm, soothing presence and a safe space for their clients. I highly recommend Yijia as your guide to a journey of healing and self-exploration
BA, MPS, RP (Qualifying), (She/Her)
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Yijia is a thoughtful and compassionate therapist whose authenticity and creativity shines. They combine a wide array of modalities, informed by life experience, to help clients heal from personal and collective trauma and hardship.

Melina Bondy

RP(Qualifying), Dharma Teacher, Facilitator, (they/them)

Yijia's passion for providing anti-oppressive, queer-affirmative support is inspiring! I have worked alongside them and have seen first-hand the authenticity and compassion they bring to their practice.

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RP (Qualifying), MA, CCC,  (he, him)

I highly recommend Yijia to anyone in the trans community seeking a safe space to explore their journey toward healing and self-discovery. Their anti-oppression approach and sensitivity towards trans issues truly make a difference.

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RP(Q), MPS, (She/her)

Office Information

In-Person appointments:
I offer In-person sessions on Thursdays.

My office is on the 4th floor of the SickKids Centre for Community Mental Health Learning Institute at Maitland and Jarvis. It’s about 100 square feet. There are windows (including one that opens), a love seat (for clients), a chair for the therapist (of course), a desk, a bookshelf, and some lamps.

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